I just dreamt I was at an evening party of some sort here in my hometown but don’t know exactly where. I had my 3 year old daughter with me and we were enjoying the night until some male friends, I do not recall who exactly who they were, were playing with my daughter. One of them was sitting while holding her as she looked out of a large glass window playing an abc kissy game I played with her as an infant. All of a sudden, she went to kiss the glass, as I did to her when playing they abc kiss game and the whole glass broke when she placed both hands on it, causing her to fall through. There was no cry from her at all and everyone in the party started placing blame on the guy holding her. I instantly started screaming out “what?!” But was reluctant to look down while another female did. I started heading towards the stairs to go outside and then woke up.
Dreams about children, especially your own, often reflect your feelings, anxieties, and experiences as a parent. Here’s a breakdown of your dream:
The Party Setting: Being at an evening party in your hometown could symbolize a social atmosphere or a gathering of friends and family. This may reflect your desire for connection, community, or perhaps a celebration of life events.
Your Daughter: Your 3-year-old daughter’s presence indicates your strong bond with her and the protective instincts that accompany parenthood. The dream may express your feelings about being a parent, including joy and potential fears of loss or harm.
Playing the ABC Kissy Game: Engaging in a game from her infancy signifies nostalgia and the innocent moments you cherish with her. This connection suggests you are reflecting on how quickly time passes and your daughter's growth.
The Broken Glass and the Fall: The glass breaking symbolizes vulnerability. This could point to your concerns about safety—both physical and emotional—for your daughter. Glass often represents fragility, and her fall might indicate a fear of losing control or being unable to protect her.
Blame from Others: The onlookers’ blame directed at the male friend may highlight your worries about judgment. You might feel anxious about external perceptions of your parenting or potential mistakes that could affect your child.
Not Wanting to Look Down: Your reluctance to look down suggests that you may be avoiding confronting deeper fears or anxieties about the situation, whether it relates to parenting challenges or personal issues.
In summary, this dream might reflect your anxieties about parenting, the safety and well-being of your child, and your reactions to external pressures or societal expectations. It’s a blend of nostalgia for innocent moments and a manifestation of deeper fears regarding protection and vulnerability. Engaging with these feelings more consciously in your waking life may help alleviate some of these anxieties.